After several months of thinking and observing,
i had woke up from the mistakes i had made before,
Whenever having a relationship,
communication between the two person is the most important,
but what i did was i never tell the one beside me,
what was my feelings, how do i feel about the things happening around,
what were the things i like and what were the things i dislike,
no one knows...i just keep them to myself, until one day i can't stand it anymore,
ended up in a tragedy..
Now, i know, no matter what comes up into my mind,
i will say it out, to let my love one knows,
so she will know how to help me, or even tolerate with me,
that's the one of the way for relationship to last long,
after communication, another thing is that in a relationship,
we need to understand each other,
understand what are his/her hobbies, favorite things, things that he/she like & dislike,
avoid everything he/she dislike, try to understand what he/she wants,
try your best to give it to them, sometimes even can give some surprises,
so that it will heat up the relationship, making each other more loving,
Furthermore,
in a relationship doesn't mean that the person is fully under your control,
he/she still have their own privacy and things needed to do,
we can't fully owed he/she, we need to leave some spaces for them to move around,
doing things he/she wants, don't stop them..
no human or even animals, do not deserve to be locked in a cage..
Whenever your relationship is facing some problems, only you and your partner can put into the blame, others cannot be put into the blame or even help out, only you and partner can solve the problems together..
人猿
1 week ago

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